WEBVTT 00:00:04.924 --> 00:00:08.225 A real man. Oh my god! 00:00:08.250 --> 00:00:12.739 A real man means someone who's strong and not too overpowering. 00:00:12.764 --> 00:00:15.021 First and foremost, he has to have a job. 00:00:15.046 --> 00:00:16.437 Someone who works hard. 00:00:16.462 --> 00:00:19.013 Respectful, honest. 00:00:19.038 --> 00:00:22.789 Someone that doesn’t cheat. Someone that doesn't steal. 00:00:22.814 --> 00:00:27.939 Body-wise: quite tall, muscular, but not Arnie. 00:00:27.964 --> 00:00:30.292 Doesn’t spend too much time in the bathroom. 00:00:30.317 --> 00:00:31.821 Someone that looks good. 00:00:31.846 --> 00:00:33.846 Wears the same thing all week. 00:00:33.871 --> 00:00:38.136 The personality as well as the looks and the way he treats a woman. 00:00:38.161 --> 00:00:39.943 That defines a real man. 00:00:39.968 --> 00:00:43.413 A man should be a survivor and a warrior. 00:00:43.438 --> 00:00:47.892 A man needs to be able to defend himself and others if he's going to have a woman around. 00:00:47.917 --> 00:00:53.716 I think a guy nowadays is a bit lost because women look after themselves, make their own money, 00:00:53.741 --> 00:00:57.564 so I think a guy should be a take charge kind of guy. 00:00:57.589 --> 00:01:01.413 It's always nice for a girl to have a man who can look after her. 00:01:01.438 --> 00:01:03.423 Someone that will be able to save someone if they were in trouble. 00:01:03.448 --> 00:01:08.285 Yeah, that’s more like it than someone that can fight off crocodiles. 00:01:08.310 --> 00:01:13.699 Hold, feed and change a baby - yeah. He doesn't necessarily have to save a drowning person, 00:01:13.724 --> 00:01:18.749 but definitely be able to take care of baby duties and do exactly what mummy does. 00:01:18.774 --> 00:01:19.952 That’s a must. 00:01:19.977 --> 00:01:25.115 My daughter was born five months ago, I was like, "Oh man, I'm a man now. Wow!" 00:01:25.140 --> 00:01:31.490 I think when a man has a child, or when they accept severe responsibility, 00:01:31.514 --> 00:01:34.428 then they know it’s time to grow up and start being serious about their life, 00:01:34.460 --> 00:01:36.985 that's when a boy can become a man. 00:01:37.010 --> 00:01:41.713 I’ve got a friend, he's 30, he's just had a son and he's still not a man. 00:01:41.737 --> 00:01:47.687 In the past men were supposed to be primal and instinctive and using their warrior skills 00:01:47.712 --> 00:01:50.428 to make things happen, but in this day and age 00:01:50.453 --> 00:01:55.920 the average man needs to be more compassionate and in touch with his emotions. 00:01:55.945 --> 00:02:00.451 Despite living in the age of the metro-sexual I'm still expected to know about football. 00:02:00.476 --> 00:02:01.554 And I'm lost. 00:02:01.579 --> 00:02:07.580 Yeah, I think masculinity is disappearing with men grooming themselves too much. 00:02:07.605 --> 00:02:11.083 The traditional version of man has changed a lot. 00:02:11.108 --> 00:02:14.329 At the end of the day, it's whoever they want to be.