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What does my family mean to me?

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They mean a lot to me.

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They mean everything.

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My whole world.

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Family means responsibility.

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Someone that will always be there for you.

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Unconditional love.

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Strength, fun, arguments.

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The people you always feel most conformable with.

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Purple life, SHM, my boys.

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My parents and my brother.

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I consider myself to have two families, 
one at work and one back home.

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The people who adopted me they're my family.

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My mum, dad, brother and dog.

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If you are self realised, the only 
family you need is God.

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We live close to each other.

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My house is here, one door away, 
another one of my brother's house,

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a couple of doors away, a couple of houses there.

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As long as you know they’re there, they’re there, 
and that’s all that needs to be done.

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The whole world will be your family 
and you'll love them.

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My family relationships, 
sometimes it shatters apart.

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I feel like walking out my house

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but sometimes, it's just like...

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It feels comfortable around my family.

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I'm comfortable around them.

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I think it can be hard sometimes in the same way 
it's hard with friends or with anybody.

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I think it's always worth it.

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Family relationships are no different

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to the energy you put into a relationship 
with a husband or a friend.

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It's the same, you need to work at it.

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I don’t think you should work at love,

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like love in the family, that should come...

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It should always be there so 
I don’t think you have to work at it.

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I think we've lost the traditional family and 
we’re trying to find our own feet again.

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I think it's becoming more modern.

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When I was first adopted, I wasn’t as accepted 
as I am now by granddad.

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I think it was a taboo subject. It was something 
to be pushed away, not talked about,

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but I think it's more socially talked about 
and accepted now, adoption.

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There's a lot more emphasis on 
living your own life

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and no regrets and marrying for the right reason.

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I think people are choosing not not get married, 
people are travelling more.

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It's not so traditional anymore.

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Families have changed, yeah, so what?